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How To Get A Girlfriend In Singapore Quickly – 5 Steps

Have you ever wanted to get a girlfriend but find it very difficult to get a girlfriend in Singapore? Here are some great tips to help locals and foreigners alike learn how to get a girlfriend in Singapore quickly! Of course, there are shortcuts to this – namely girlfriends for hire, or rather female social escorts. There are lots of SG escorts in Singapore who can pretend to be your girlfriend for a price. If you want that, you can click on the link I have for you above. But if not, and you just want to know how to get a girlfriend in Singapore, please read on.

For many Singaporean men, approaching a random beautiful girl is one of the hardest things they can ever do. Most men struggling with dating already have troubles approaching random girls, much less a girl they think are gorgeous and absolutely their type.

What you want to do is to adopt a mentality known as the educated abundant mentality. This basically means that you want to be educated on how to approach girls as well as not worry that every girl you approach is the last girl left on earth.

First of all, you do not want to put any girl on a pedestal. The moment you think that a particular girl is out of your reach, you immediately become the beta in the interaction. You are hard pressed to find a girl who like beta males. Most guys look at a girl in Singapore, and think, “She’s the one – I must get her, but I do not think I deserve her.” This is a loser’s mentality and you are bound to not be able to get the girl.

Because of all of the above, you will also suddenly not be as clear in your mind, and you may even start to stutter or sound weird.

So how do you solve this issue? I cannot simply tell you to stop putting hot girls on a pedestal and you will magically be able to do it. Chances are, you will not be able to change like that – otherwise you would have a long time ago. In fact, never approach a girl to try to get her. Approach girls to enjoy yourself. If you approach every girl as though you are trying to make her become your girlfriend, you will have a hard time. Girls get moved easier when they feel that they have fun whenever they are with you. Therefore, if you want to get a girlfriend quickly in Singapore, make sure to drop all external expectations of what kind of reactions you want from her. Remember – there are lots of girls in Singapore.

Second of all, how do you approach a girl? You do not want to tap her on her shoulders, nor approach her directly. Why is that the case? If you tap a girl or anyone on the shoulders from the back, you immediately raise up the girl’s internal mental defense mechanism. If you approach a girl dead on straight from her front, you will make her run away like you are an insurance agent approaching a prospect in public.

So how do you do it? You want to approach a girl from a somewhat 45 degree angle.

Third of all, you want to exude confidence when you approach. Just remember that if you do not put girls on a pedestal, chances are, you will already be very confident. The primary reasons why a guy is not confident is because he puts too much focus on the end goal on getting the girl to say yes to a date, or because he puts the girl on a pedestal. Therefore, when you lose expectations of what you want the girl to do, you will be confident. The less you care about what others think, the more confident you become.

Next of all, always make sure to keep strong eye contact. Most likely she’ll look away first if you hold the gaze. Most girls in Singapore are quite shy and will look away. Do not take that as a sign of her not liking you. In fact, she is probably intimidated (in a good way as long as you are not looking like a serial killer or a garbage cleaner), and is simply shy. By holding eye contact when you are talking to her until she looks away, she will also think you are confident. Many beta men in Singapore are unable to hold eye contact with a hot girl.

Last but not least, do not put the focus on you, nor put the focus on her. When you are talking with her, put the focus on just enjoying yourselves. You do not want to put all focus on her, although that is better than having the conversation topics about yourself. You want her to walk away thinking of the conversation and how fun it was talking with you. Not to you.

Last but not least, just ask for her number and shut up. Do not talk at this point after you ask for her number. You may think it is awkward, but you need to remain silent. It can be the most silent and long 5 or 10 or even 20 seconds you will ever experience, but you need to keep quiet. Whoever speaks first loses. She will either give you her number or give you a straight no.

Congrats! Now you got her number. What next? You want to set up a date as soon as possible. Do not put a date 4 weeks later. Keep it within the next few days or perhaps at most 1 week later.

What then happens after you go on a date? Repeat the above over and over again and if you truly can click with that girl you just picked up, then you will have yourself a girlfriend! It really is that simple. The key is to let go of all expectations that you want her to be your girlfriend, and instead focus on simply enjoying yourselves whenever you are together with her.

So there you have it! A few simple steps, five actually, to help you get a girlfriend in Singapore quickly.

Singapore’s Social Escorts Reviews – What You Must Know

Here is an honest overview of the social escorts in Singapore, how to best find them, where to find them.

There are basically two ways you can look for social escorts in Singapore. You can either look for female escorts in Singapore through agencies or you can look on independent escort girl directories. Both will allow you to find social escorts, however, not every method is equally effective depending on what you are looking for.

Firstly, if you want to look for local, Singaporean social escorts, chances are that you will find better luck by looking for them through agencies. Singapore based social escort agencies such as SGVIPEscorts and PhunkN provide local social escorts. To the best of my knowledge, they provide only Singaporean girls. This means that if you like Singaporean girls, you should go through an intermediary like them. Most local Singaporeans work through agencies, as agencies provide the girls a layer of privacy protection, which many Singaporean girls want. There are also exceptional cases such as Risqué Rebecca and Courtesan Cara who are Singaporean girls who strike out on their own. These are rare and few between, and only two of them exists.

If you like Singaporean girls, then check out my review below:

1. SG VIP Escorts (prices averages between $700 to $1000) – one of the biggest social escort agencies Singapore has seen lately, they also recently appeared on Yahoo!. Sorry, I do not have their article with me, just Google for it and you should be able to find it. SG VIP Escorts specialize in local Singaporean girls, although they do seem to hire permanent residents once in a long while. I went for one of their girls, Chloe, but she is no longer available at the moment. Make sure to check them out if you want to meet a Singaporean social escort. Rates are between $700 to $1000. I will say that it is rated at a 4.5 out of 5 stars experience.

Verdict for SG VIP Escorts: Recommended if you want local Singaporean girls.

2. Royce (prices used to be between $1500 to $3500) – a now defunct / shut down escort website based in Singapore, they supposedly charge a lot for their girls. I have never used them myself since they are already shut down by the government, but from people who have used them before, they have really gorgeous local girls. The only issue is – they are already shut down, and they actually cost nearly double or triple that of SG VIP Escorts, which is why I won’t use them even if they are still around. $2000 or more per hour is just insane other than once a year indulgences in my opinion. Since I have not used them, I shan’t rate them, but shall leave it here in case any of you people are curious. I just use SG VIP Escorts exclusively these days.

Verdict for Royce: Unable to experience, but the high rates meant it was suitable only for a few.


Secondly, if you prefer foreign girls instead such as European girls or girls of other nationality, read on. Before we move on, I want to provide you with a big disclaimer. Non citizens are not allowed to work in Singapore legally. This means that any foreigner citizenship wise working as an escort in Singapore is violating the manpower laws of Singapore. We do not encourage nor condone you nor anyone else to engage in criminal activity such as this. However, if you are wondering for example, in the past, where do people look for foreign escorts in Singapore, read on.

Most agencies do not accept hiring of European or American or basically any foreigners. This means that if you want to look for European or even perhaps Russian escorts, then independent sites are your best choice. Since Backpage got taken down internationally in 2018, you will need to go elsewhere to look for independent European escorts while you are in Singapore. (Frankly, you should just go to Europe if you want European escorts.) However, for informational purposes only, I will share with you some sites which seem to show independent foreign escorts working in Singapore.

If you like foreign girls, then check out my review below (but please read the above disclaimer! We do not condone people violating any laws at all in Singapore. The following is purely for informational purposes, and not for anyone to take action on):

1. Escorts of Singapore (prices averages between $600 to $1800) – This is basically an independent escort site based in Singapore. Most of the girls there are foreigners, and consist of girls of all races and nationality. However, most of them hail from either European or South East Asians countries. They have a system of verification, I will recommend that if you must somehow use them, make sure to go for those who are verified with the higher number of stars. This supposedly means that they are verified better. The danger with independent escort sites is that most listings are using fake photographs. This is one of the rare few sites which the well verified escorts actually provide real photos. So if you want to meet such a foreign escort, you may want to try Escorts of Singapore. I cannot say with certainty since I have not met any escorts from this website before, but from the website directory alone, I would rate it a 2.5 out of 5. However, if you compare it to other independent sites, this is definitely one of the better ones and will rate it between 3.5 out of 5 stars. The reason it is not 4 or 4.5 is because I still need to sift through a lot of profiles, since many of them look active, but are in reality, defunct and do not reply to messages.

Verdict for Escorts of Singapore: Could potentially be great – but use at your own legal risk.

2. Locanto (prices averages between $300 to $700) – Once Backpage was taken down, Locanto became the giant internationally when it came to escorts advertising. Looking at Locanto, one will quickly realize that nearly all of the escort ads on it are by women of South East Asian descent (excluding Singaporeans). Few Europeans, if at all, are found on Locanto personal ads. However, there is one big issue that I do not like about Locanto. If you checked out reviews of individual posters on Locanto itself by users, most of them have terrible ratings. The main complaint is that most ‘escorts’ on Locanto are either scams where they get your money without meeting you, or that the photographs used are fake. Based on that alone, I will rate Locanto a miserable 1.5 out of 5.

Verdict for Locanto: AVOID at all costs.

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5 Common Misconceptions About Social Escorts In Singapore

Due to many negative news in the news and misinformation spread by ignorant people, many people in Singapore have many misconceptions about the world of social escorts. Let us clear up some of the common misconceptions people have about social escorts.

Firstly, a common misconception people make is that they think being a social escort is illegal in Singapore. That cannot be further from the truth. Did you know that the government allows for social escorts to thrive in Singapore? The reason for this misinterpretation is because people only listen to the news or worse of all, ignorant and ‘sit around do nothing’ kopitiam uncles and aunties. Social escorts are essentially (usually female) professional companions. They are like the ancient geishas of Japan. They are paid to entertain and accompany their wealthy male clients. There is absolutely nothing illegal with that.

Secondly, a lot of people may think that escorts work full time as escorts. While that may be the case in other countries, it definitely is not in Singapore. Not a single escort in Singapore works full time as one. And it is not because you cannot make enough money to survive and live off as an escort. It is simply because of Singapore’s conservative culture. Regardless of the amount of money they make legally as a social escort in Singapore, they will still get a day job or flexible job and use that as a conversation piece if people start asking what they do for a living. This is because Singapore is still culturally conservative, and typical Singaporeans being very busybody, love gossiping about such news even though it is perfectly legal.

Third of all, many people think that social escorts are usually lowly-educated, incapable girls who could only make money through escort work. That MAY be the case in overseas. But not in Singapore. In fact, in Singapore, over 95% of escorts are actually university undergraduates or graduates, and work a very respective white collar job. While some become escorts because they need the cash desperately because they come from a poor family background, some work just because they are single and they can make money off their appearances. Some escorts may even come from middle-upper class families.

Fourthly, a lot of people mistaken escorts as prostitutes. Before I explain the misconception, we have to first understand what an escort is and what a prostitute is. An escort is a professional (and very attractive looking) companion to their clients. It can be for a public even or a private date. A prostitute is a woman who sells sexual services of herself to men who are willing to pay for it. If you want a clear cut way to view this – see female social escorts in Singapore as professional girlfriends.

Finally, can social escorts have sexual relations with their clients legally? Yes they can. Let us just imagine this – can you meet a girl off Tinder and have sexual relationship with her or even marry her? Yes you can. Can Tinder arrange for that? No they cannot, that will be pimping or selling mail order bride and is strictly punishable by law. Same thing with escorts and social escort agencies in Singapore. Agencies cannot arrange for that by law. Can the escort choose to? Yes, but it must be of her own accord. If it is facilitated by anyone else, that is illegal. Agencies in Singapore can only arrange for romantic companionship and that is all. On a slightly different note, can you choose to marry your escort like how Richard Gere married Julia Roberts in pretty woman? Yes you can, although do not be disappointed if your escort says no, as the reason they work as escorts is because they only want no strings attached relationships with their clients.